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[quote=Anonymous]Wait, I missed it was a child who asked you to get divorced. Yikes. I'd strongly strongly look for therapy. And look for ways to lessen tension in the house - lead more separate lives? And keep the kids away from any of this, while also considering how to help them navigate it. That is, you can't take them into your confidence, so how can you say to them, this isn't how most people live, this isn't the kind of peaceful life I want, we're muddling through as best we can, etc. I think you can think seriously about divorce when the youngest is maybe 13 or so - courts will take into account teenager's preferences. Meet with an attorney (pay cash, so it's not traceable) and learn what's realistic/possible in your situation. Start building a separate life. lay the groundwork for divorce, smartly, so he can't "destroy you" when it does happen. [/quote]
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