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[quote=Anonymous]I've been where you are, OP, and it's tough. You're right, at 41, you're increasingly reaching the point where it's more likely it's not going to happen unless you're really working at it and maybe not even then. (I did six cycles of IVF at 41 and 42 and it was an eye-opening process to say the least.) I think you are right to be thinking at this point, you are better off mentally and emotionally to actively choose "yes I want this and am going to full on go for it," or "I've tried - and now I'm going to move on." It kind of sounds like you're at the latter place? If so, maybe just work on rigorously distracting your brain when it starts to get broody...and just keep slogging through it and over time these thoughts will come to you less often. I know it's got to be really hard right now especially given the timing of your last miscarriage. I am sending you a big hug through the universe. Be gentle with and take care of yourself.[/quote]
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