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[quote=Anonymous]It was with years of discussion and relationship work that DH and I came to the agreement of trying for a third child. We officially agreed to start trying about a year ago when I turned 40yo as “let’s just see what happens” and an agreement in advance that this was either going to happen on its own, not with clomid or seeing an RE. I used to chart to avoid, no longer temp, just track my period and felt like I had a decent sense. I’ve had two pregnancies that ended in miscarriage since then, one at 8wks, one at 10wks. It’s now been 6 months since the last pregnancy and I’m feeling like I can’t bridge being hopeful and the idea that “oh yes, we’re hoping to have another” and “maybe it’s time to quietly move on.” It hasn’t helped that suddenly now that work is back in person it feels like everyone I meet is pregnant and due around the time my last miscarriage would have been. Is this just the plans of a summer baby memories rearing their head? I bought ovulation sticks, thinking they were cheap and easy, but I worry tracking too closely is putting too much heart commitment in.  Not doing anything feels like I’m not committing to “I would like to be pregnant and I will work to make it happen.” Obviously age is a factor, both in getting pregnant and available time left for it to be an option.[/quote]

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