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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Option C : the guy who you have not met yet. The guy you're going to meet while you spend the next year adjusting to real adult life.[/quote]

I like this one. It’s one thing to date, and even fall in love and get serious, but at that age I would consider it a mistake to get into any relationship that limits your options in terms of where to move, where to go for further school, etc. In my 20s I traveled the world doing odd jobs, went to law school, clerked for a federal judge (a one-year gig where you go wherever you get the job), and then chose among several cities in terms of where I wanted to settle down with a professional career. All of those situations were great experiences that shaped me into who I am today, and I treasure them. It would have been tragic if I missed out because I was dating someone in X location and didn’t want to be apart. Looking at it from the other side, I still got married and had a child (only wanted one), both in my 30s, so I don’t feel that I missed anything on the relationship side by not dating more seriously in my 20s. [/quote]

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