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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I say this with kindness and without judgment: You need to put out before your husband starts looking elsewhere. Find a babysitter to watch the kids and take an evening for yourselves each week. If you’re still uneasy with your body for whatever reason tell him that. Think of it as a time to perfect your bj skills. Men just operate differently than women it’s normal but you have to compromise. At this point it’s been a year with very little goodies I can understand his frustration. [/quote] I disagree with this. Her husband needs to understand what she’s going through right now: she recently had a traumatic and physically taxing labor/delivery that takes a lot of time to recover from, she is holding/feeding/doing physical care for twin newborns all day every day (and probably some in the night), she’s likely hormonal from all this, she’s likely sleep deprived. Her husband can take care of his own needs for awhile longer.[/quote]
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