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[quote=Anonymous]I feel so vulnerable (and downright weird) posting this, but I don’t feel like I can talk to my friends and family about it and I figured that a parenting site might be my best bet for insight. I had twins 3 months ago and after a fairly traumatic birth (e.g., among other things, I needed a blood transfusion), I don’t have the desire to be as intimate as my husband does. Before kids, we were intimate about twice/week and now it’s dropped to about half of that, but after we put the twins down at night every night he is all over me. I just feel totally touched out holding and feeding babies all day, but he feels rejected when I say no almost every night of the week since I’m too tired. His drive is way higher than it ever was for the 10+ years that we’ve been together since I gave birth. I guess I’m just wondering if this is normal and just a phase (either on his part or on mine)? And in case it’s helpful to know, we were not intimate much during pregnancy, so I’m wondering if that has something to do with his change in drive?

Anyway, in the event that this post isn’t too explicit to be deleted, thanks for any perspective! [/quote]

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