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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you think is the most ideal family set up? A. Both parents work flexible jobs and share parenting duties roughly 50-50 B. One high earner and one stay at home parent. Stay at home parent can outsource as needed C. One big career and one flexible job. Have full time help. D. Two big careers with high quality nanny plus full time housekeeper Dh and I could be any of these categories. We are currently B. [b]I feel like D gets the most respect[/b].[/quote] Respect from whom? Are you making decisions based on what's best for your family or based on what others will think of you? [/quote] I stay home and that is what we decided was best for our family. Before Covid, I stayed home with a baby and 2 kids in school with PT nanny/housekeeper. Right now we only have a weekly housekeeper. I’m thinking of switching to C. Not sure if we will need full time help if my 3 kids are all in school. Would be amazing if I could find someone who could cook and clean while kids are at school and help with driving to afternoon activities.[/quote]
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