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Reply to "Lessons from our mothers -- what you'll take/what you'll leave"
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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in a bad place with my mom right now and really struggling to come up with the "take" category. There is probably something, I just cannot access a memory of it right now. Leave: martyring myself to motherhood so I can blame my kids for my own unhappiness, trying to turn my child into the mother I never had (OP, that's probably part of why your mom used you as a therapist, it's common), using shame/guilt to get my kids to suppress any inconvenient need or feeling, there are others but those are the main ones that come to mind right now.[/quote]
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