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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are too entangled. Detach. you cannot save her. Figure out the boundaries where you can enjoy her company and not have her suck the life out of you. If she doesn't respect those boundaries that tells you what you need to know.[/quote] I did try to remember to just enjoy her company for a while without letting myself get sucked into the rescuer role. But I think seeing another family member step into that role both triggered some guilt in me for not helping in the same way and also just unease that she was putting that burden on someone else. I don’t think she is toxic or manipulative on purpose. I think she is a naturally really emotionally aware person who intuitively knows how to handle people and kind of slip into a certain role or character that would encourage that person to help her.[/quote]
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