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[quote=Anonymous]Oh my goodness….you are under no obligation to schlep a 4 year old around when teen cousins get together. My best friend, at age 50, is my cousin who is 13 years older than me. I never, NEVER hung out with him as a child. He was a teenager and had his own life! By taking the older kids, you’re giving your sister a chance to give special time to her 4 year old. That’s a HUGE gift. There is no need whatsoever to feel guilty. Let the older cousins hang out in peace. The age difference is not their fault and it’s no measure of anyone’s love for the young cousin. Turns out, decades later, that I have way more uncommon with my older cousin than my siblings and my cousin’s siblings. They can figure this out in adulthood. You can’t expect them to be peers no when they are not.[/quote]
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