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[quote=Anonymous]NP - why in person? Honestly - I don't need to be dragged in public or drag someone else just to say "this ain't it" lol. I'd call them / not text but I wouldn't entertain the long drawn out conversation of they whys and wherefores. Much like you, I'm a bit older and I don't have the patience. Good for you for recognizing the red flags. Most of these in-person conversations are just an opportunity to "hash it out" and justify the red flags or worse, gaslight you - and I wouldn't want to go through that. I'd make it pretty simple. Call, say you've mulled over issues you've had and want him to know that you're no longer interested in seeing him and wish him the best. If he asks all the whys, you can choose to share or say that you're certain that you're not a fit and don't want to see him anymore. I'm sure he already knows what his own red flags are.[/quote]
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