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Reply to "spouse eats lunch out every day; I get leftovers"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He doesn't want me for lunch dates. No, he's not cheating, he just likes talking shop with his colleagues.[/quote] Sounds like him eating out every day is a cost of doing business and you'll have to get used to it. He can't be the guy who sits in his office brown-bagging it while everyone else goes out to lunch.[/quote] This is right, and he probably also likes the socializing so, unless it's a problem for your budget, I'd let it go. I get that you are unhappy about where you life and your remote work situation, but it won't make you happier to take away something that brings your spouse joy. HOWEVER, the necessary and correct compromise from him is to go out to eat in the evenings with you regularly, to try the restaurants you want to try, and to schedule an occasional lunch date with you.[/quote]
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