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Reply to "Is it reasonable to want to connect with your partner in all levels?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have this ideal of being able to have a “deep” relationship with my partner. By deep I mean being affectionate, emotionally close, have a solid friendship, care about each other’s day, and be able to share what’s on our minds. An area where this always falters is sharing what’s on our minds. If we discuss politics or our opinions on current events or a book or something, the conversation devolves into arguing. I want to be able to disagree but not argue. I also want to hear my partners thoughts even if I may not agree with them. A lot of people just take the stance of….let’s just never talk about these topics. Going that route seems shallow to me. Am I asking for too much? I don’t expect my partner to be my everything fyi. But would prefer if we could have conversations with depth.[/quote] If you start young as friends then it’s possible but if you started with purposeful dating as professional adults, it’s not impossible but highly unlikely to get there.[/quote]
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