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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see a problem in DH telling his mom only because our moms live so close to each other and know several of the same people. Isn't it common courtesy to let people share their health status with those around them if they wish? If our moms lived in different cities, NBD.[/quote] I think you swing to bring very private about it. Which is fine - but you need to be super clear with your dh not to share it. It would not occur to me not to share it as people generally aren’t all that guarded about it. I think the text you proposed sending to your MIL is a fine way to handle it. I would not hide it from my kids because they likely won’t believe you in the future when you say “everything is fine”. I think it’s ok to say grandma is having more tests and maybe play it down a little, but don’t say “grandma is fine” if that isn’t the case. Hugs to you. I hope your mom does well. [/quote]
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