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[quote=Anonymous]My mother was psychologically abusive to me and my siblings and physically abusive to one of my siblings. I could never, ever have her living in my home and stay sane. I manage her care (in an assisted living facility that I partially pay for) from a distance and that is hard enough and I wonder frequently why I’m doing even that. But I don’t think I can walk away, and given that, the cost is worth every penny in terms of being able to distance myself as much as I need. You have no obligation to care for abusive and enabling parents, and the fact that your mother blames her abuse on you speaks volumes. Only you can decide what you’re willing and able to do, but you deserve to put your own needs first…that’s really the only way to heal from childhood abuse Good luck, OP. [/quote]
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