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[quote=Anonymous]You're probably incompatible.  I have 3 kids and don't really see how having an 11-month-old would cause that kind of flakiness.

There are lots of people in the world who think nothing of making plans and then canceling them.  Others hate canceling/flaking out and will do their best not to cancel. Of course, stuff/life happens to everyone at times, and canceling is unavoidable but there are lots and lots of chronic cancel types, and either that will bug you or not.

At least, your friend gives you at least 24 hours notice. I once had a friend who kept asking me to take her on a challenging 10-mile hike because she didn't have anyone to go with and didn't want to go alone, which I understand. I finally agreed, but we never ended up going. She bailed on me at 5:30 am in the morning when I was waiting for her outside her house ready to drive her to the trailhead.

Stop making plans with her or invite a more reliable friend too so your plans can go ahead even if she decides not to go.

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