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[quote=Anonymous]Last year, I was hoping that DH might have some proposal of something to do on Mother's Day. He's not great at planning or executing, so this is not a surprise. But sometimes he'll pull one out, so you never know what you're going to get. But I felt a little bummed out last year that there was no urge to do anything. Finally he invited me to take my daughter (6) and have "a mother's day" out with her while he stayed at home (lazy bum, and also made me sad). When I proposed an idea for something to do, well, he thought that sounded interesting to him and decided he wanted to come along after all. Later it occurred to him that he hadn't played this day that well and he apologized for being lame. For Father's Day, I make sure we have a plan for breakfast or to go out for brunch and I already have a gift for him. I wouldn't do this to him, and I actually think he'd be pretty upset if the reverse happened to him. We've been having a tough time in our marriage, and stuff like this is very emblematic to me of what's wrong, even though I think it has more to do with him and his lack of motivation rather than how he actually feels about me. I'm kind of assuming I should just forget my ideal of a day planned for me/togetherness and make my own plan or treat it like any other weekend.  [/quote]

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