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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your mother will never apologize. She will never love you the way you want her too. Having her move in, taking care of her, won't change her. If you want to care for her, then do. And if you are doing it with the hopes of her changing, don't. If she asks why you won't help, look at her kindly and say sweetly, you reap what you sow. And wish her the best.[/quote] I agree with the first part but not the second. It's not OP's job to play judge here and doll out her mom's fate. OP has to decide what feels right to her and do that. Maybe it would be better for OP to forgive and forget. Some of us need to take the high road in order to be out peace with ourselves. However, maybe OP can't take care of her parents because the hurt is too raw and that's okay, too. If that's the case, I think OP should be honest with them so she can move on and feel good about her choice for the rest of her life. [/quote]
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