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[quote=Anonymous]I met a man (healthcare worker) right before COVID. I stopped seeing him because of COVID. I ended up seeing him once last year. He wanted to see me more but it never worked out due to a work emergency (common in his work). He reached out late last year to see me and a few months ago but our schedules did not align. He asked me again recently if I wanted to see him again and I said yes. This is someone I would have wanted a serious relationship with when I was younger (I am early-40s and divorced with two kids). He is a few years younger. He told me when we first met he wished we had met younger because he said I was what he was looking for with marriage material.

Anyway, I saw him recently and beforehand just to avoid any questions (since it has been 14 months since I saw him), I said I had been tested recently to be safe. He asked if had been with anyone and I said yes. He said he was curious and would want to know about it. I said I did not want to talk about it.

I saw him and it was nice, but he still asked questions (how old was he? what was his job? how did it end?). It bothered me. I asked him why he wanted to know. He said because he wanted to know all of me and that is part of my story. Maybe he just wanted to know it was over? Was that why?

I don't get it. He has a crazy busy job. He wants to keep seeing me again, but I do not want to do a thing where I don't see him for months or a year or whatever. (Rarely is okay...I am not interested in a normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationship when people see each other all the time...I am too busy for that myself).

I like him, but I did think it was weird about the questions about another relationship when I was not seeing him. Am I weird or is he weird?[/quote]

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