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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My STBXH separated six months ago. We share custody 50/50 of our son.

About 3 months ago I reconnected with an old flame that I had significant feelings for but he was never really more than a FWB. I saw him two months ago for a "sleepover" and he’s been hot/cold ever since. Honestly the flame for him never really went out.

Long story short, I’m dealing with just such crippling sadness since dealing with the rejection of two men. I lost 20lbs after my separation and felt better physically than I have in a long time. Now everything is just kind of surfacing - losing my marriage and also realizing I don’t mean anything to someone I hoped would even give me the time of day. He just left me on read when I reached out to him. I deleted his number and have decided to just forget about him. But it doesn’t get rid of the feelings I wish would go away.

I don’t know where to go from here? Therapy? Meds? Thank god my ex has our kid today because I just feel like an idiot. [/quote]

Sorry you are going through this.  I recommend taking medicine for anxiety or depression. I take Wellbutrin and it really helped me through my divorce. I was on it before we broke up and I think that’s what kept me relatively sane.  If you still have his number I suggest blocking him so you don’t have to wonder if he is texting you or not.[/quote]

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