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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Within three months of separating you were already hooking up with someone else. That’s your  problem. Learn who you are on your own. Take a break from bring in a partnership. Focus on helping others -volunteer on a day when you don’t have your child[/quote]

NP here. I think you should take your sanctimonious comment about oh you’ve been messing around with somebody three months from separation and shove it. Everyone seems to think they know what’s best for other people who’ve gone through a divorce in terms of this when you really have no idea. Many many people who separate or divorced have really not been in an actual relationship for years and their marriage was dead for a very long time in a lot of instances. I did not date while separated and I was separated for two years and in retrospect it was absolutely stupid that I did not date. When I was separated I had not had sex in five years and by the time I was actually divorce I had not had sex in seven years I literally was a no relationship marriage so really bothers me when people come on here and assume oh you shouldn’t date right away after being separated or divorced when you have no idea what the marriage was actually like that these people are leaving. [/quote]

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