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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you want to meet this other guy?  Then don't bring it up and go on a date with him.  If the offer made you realize that you don't want to be with anyone other than current guy, bring it up that way.

"Larla offered to set me up with her college friend, and it made me realize how glad I am I met you, because I don't want to date anyone else. [b] What are your thoughts on being exclusive?[/b]" and let the conversation flow from there.[/quote]

"Larla offered to set me up with her college friend, and it made me realize how glad I am I met you, because I don't want to date anyone else. I think we should be exclusive and see where this relationship goes."

If you ask instead of tell, you're setting yourself up for potential problems. Say what you want. If they don't want that too, fine, but don't stick around waiting for it. [/quote]

Potato/patahto.  The script you bolded says clearly "I don't want to date anyone else" before asking.  You're conveying the same information.[/quote]

Not really. By asking, you sound like your mind can be changed and you're not sure if you should be exclusive yet. The idea is to convey it's exclusivity now, or it's over. [/quote]

Yep. Need to be upfront with the ultimatum.[/quote]

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