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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Meh. I would tell him to just say 'oh thats nice, thanks mom' and if/when it comes to blows he should not take the bait. Mom can say whatever 'oh but i spent all the money on you' he doesn't have to take the bait. He told her no numerous times, now he's just accepting the gift when it arrives. She sounds like the type that will make his refusal of the gift an even bigger issue. Just say thanks and keep moving. My mom is like this, I've said no to gifts year after year. Now I just say thanks and keep moving. When she brings it up and tries to align it with something else (trying to guilt me into xyz), I simply don't take the bait and redirect the conversation and remove myself from the discussion.[/quote] It’s a gift that would require his input, so it is sort of a yes or no type thing. [/quote]
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