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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My BF is retired at age 62. He wants me to move to NC to live with him. He has a pension and a great retiree lifestyle. I[b] am 52 and in the prime of my career.[/b] [b]I need to save as much money as I can to ensure a comfortable retirement[/b]. I don’t have kids— I am going to be alone in my very old age, assuming I’m lucky to live that long. BF wants me to get a less stressful job so we can spend more time together. He told me if I keep my current job, things won’t work out between us. [b]I like my job and it would be hard for me to find another one that is both less stressful and allows me to save what I’m saving currently[/b]. I[b]’ve spent years building my career, [/b]but my BF means a great deal to me. I don’t want to lose him, but I also feel put off by his request here, like he’s trying to make me fit into his life with no regard for my needs. I’m not sure what to do.[/quote]

I think you know what to do. Go back and read your post, especially the bolded.[/quote]

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