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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are you open to being accepting of this?

If so ask questions. Ask what types of things he gains pleasure from.  Ask him his preference for pleasing his partner.  I think of his response will allow you to make an educated judgment of if you want to move forward with sex.  It would eliminate a lot of surprises and potential embarrassment “in the moment”.  [/quote]

Thanks for your kind response.
I think I am. I mean I really like him as a person. But I admit I'm  nervous about it not something I ever really thought about before.

I get the impression that  he's had some unpleasant experiences surrounding this.

I'd like to give us a chance.[/quote]

I agree.  Ask him what brings him pleasure.  If you feel comfortable you can ask if he’d be ok sharing what happened before, high level, so you can help avoid that.[/quote]

I think before you get into this, you need to understand what “intersex” means for his body. The term is used to cover a lot of different things that may have an impact on your sex life. [/quote]

I think you're both right, just not sure how to go about that. Though I suppose him telling me was opening the conversation [/quote]
You just need to ask. “Can you tell me what that means for you?” Unless you’re a doctor, most people really don’t know what that means. And unless you’re his doctor, you wouldn’t know what it means for him.[/quote]

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