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Reply to "Why Men Cheat - How Can I Break This Cycle?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I really wish this post and the article hadn't framed the dynamic around cheating. Because: a) if you're married, you shouldn't cheat; and b) this dynamic causes dysfunction in marriage whether the husband cheats or not. Just posting this again because it's worth emphasizing: [b]"To them, their wives treat sex as a chore and lack all enthusiasm about it. Men internalise that disinterest as, “I’m not good enough” and “I’m a disappointment.” They feel undervalued not only as a sexual partner, but as a person." [/b] And these "just so" stories where good husbands get laid enthusiastically while bad husbands do not aren't especially helpful. Enough good husbands experience lackluster sex lives and enough bad husbands have sexually giving partners to make these stories inconsistent at best when compared to reality. [/quote]
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