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[quote=Anonymous]I felt the same way when I hit my mid-30's and all my friends were getting married and having kids.  And often the same people were also becoming more successful career-wise than I was, so that was a blow too!  I felt like a real loser at times, even though I knew I was fine.

Honestly, my advice would be twofold.  First, cast a wider net.  Yeah, online dating can be discouraging and/or depressing but I still know a ton of people who have met nice people that way, so you need to do it.  Keep up with your friendships too, and try to keep meeting new platonic friends so you feel like your life is full.  Second, start figuring out what would make you happy if you did end up single and child-free. Chances are you won't, but you might, and it's worth exploring your options.  Would you be happy making your own nest (home) or traveling more?  This is the time to pursue interesting hobbies or get your career to a really good place or pursue educational opportunities.  Who knows you might meet someone doing that stuff.  Or you might end up just being a more interesting, more fulfilled person.

I ended up with an accidental pregnancy at 36 and I'm still single.  Just turned 50.  I don't love being single at my age but I also don't hate it.  I have a decent career, my own home, hobbies, a ton of friends and an awesome kid.  So my life isn't what I expected AT ALL but it's pretty good.[/quote]

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