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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like humans learn when they feel the problem versus being told about it. I'd tell him that you can no longer do the following: cook 100%, do several items of the cleaning that you are now doing, and find the nanny he thinks will solve your problems. Have him do those things, while working, and I'll bet he'll change his tune.

Or, I'd go away for a week while leaving him to work/care for the kids, and he'll learn the hard way how hard it is. [/quote]

Thank you! This was the first thing I thought of. I did go away for a week with friends. He flew his mom out, asked the nanny to work overtime and ordered most meals. It was so much for his mom who hates childcare that she didnt return for 6 months- even missed the holidays.[/quote]

I think I'd ask for therapy. He doesn't care about how you feel, about how your life feels to you, or about changing anything to make it better. This  means therapy, and I agree - he organizes the childcare, calls insurance to make sure they cover it, etc. [/quote]

Ideas like this are so good in theory and dh may even verbally agree but if he’s like mine he will take literally no action to make it happen[/quote]

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