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Reply to "Being single and seeing my friends get married and have kids "
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[quote=Anonymous]PP above has it right. As I see it, there’s two ways you can go about it. You can dig into dating and finding a partner like it’s a job. Work things like networking events, OLD, and go places expressly to meet a partner. I know of a few friends who went this route, and got the results they wanted. I went the other route. I focused on building a life that made me completely happy, on my own. I took up new hobbies and immersed myself in them. I volunteered. I chatted up strangers at the grocery store that interested me - like 100 year old ladies and 5 year old kids. And in doing that, I met DH through one of those hobbies. While I’m happy I did meet him, I look upon those few years where my focus was my own happiness as some of the best of my life. He wasn’t the icing on the cake as much as some extra leavening in the batter that made me rise a little more, but the life I had created was happy, and exactly what I wanted for myself. [/quote]
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