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[quote=Anonymous]OP, comparison is the thief of joy. It’s cliche but true. Life isn’t fair and you basically have to make the best of what you have. I view it as a choice. I am an immigrant who came here penniless as a child. I can choose to compare myself to the wives of my husband’s old-money college buddies and be bitter that I’m not living in a 3 million dollar home without working or ever having to think about money. OR I can choose to be thankful for my own life, which is cushier than I ever hoped for growing up - a big house in a nice neighborhood and a salary that is higher than what my parents ever made, combined. Focusing on the former brings me nothing positive. Focusing on the latter makes me into a calmer, happier, more appreciative person. Can you unfollow people on social media that trigger these negative thoughts? [/quote]
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