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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Frankly speaking, I don't know what to say, other than hearing them talking about it at IEP meeting. I feel bitter, and I do agree what they say are true. As DC gets older, I think school have more expectation even though DC is still considered young at 5. DC has asd and adhd, and she sometimes talks rudely and does not have manners., eg does not say thank you, no sharing, rigid, has more intense relationship with peers....

When DC was a bit younger, probably those nehaviors are not considered a big deal. How should I address those things with DC at home after I hear all these, can I just directly talk to DC say that who and who said you did that or you said that, and what you did that back then was not Right? Or should I do not call out names, but say that I hear of this and that or make a case scenrios that How one should act this or that under those situation? I definitely can feel a lot of frustration from them at the meeting, and I still want to stay positive thinking that they are just talking about observations, not preally something personal.

After meeting, DH says that DC is spoiled with no manner, and blah blah blah.... and we should work on parenting or taking away things from her if she does not do things appropriately.....what do you normally do after IEP meeting after all these? Parenting 101 team plan reorganization or take things slow?[/quote]

OP you'll find kids have these issues well into high school and beyond. Your child is extremely young. I don't think half of my child's friends consistently said please and thank you at that age. Your IEP team is overreacting [/quote]

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