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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that a 12 year old's voice should be heard in the custody process.  I think their preferences should be taken into account.

But I also think that 12 year olds are emotionally volatile and impulsive, and that major decisions shouldn't revolve around what they say to you in the middle of a difficult moment when they're upset about something that isn't their business.  I can guarantee that at some point she's going to be upset that you set a limit, or embarrassed her and call her mother upset.  Respond to this in the way you'd want her mother to respond when she does it to you.

I'm also not sure what the fact that her brother is homeschooled or SN has to do with this. [/quote]

Thank you. I mentioned the home school and younger brother special needs because she has complained that her mom doesn't spend time with her and she's usually by herself most time. [/quote]

A homeschooling mom is home with her kids more than a parent who works not less, so were you offering it as evidence that your daughter doesn't have a realistic perception?  I'm still really confused.  You seem to be saying that beause she has a child with a disability she shouldn't have 50% custody of her other kids.  If your 18 month old turns out to have a disability will you give up the other 2?  [/quote]

Absolutely not. I want my daughter to be happy and  if she be wants to change the custody arrangements, I am ok with it but not at my ex-wife expense. I want them to get along and work out their difference. [/quote]

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