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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If someone fell in love, married early and stayed monogamous all their life, did they miss out even though they were happy and content?

Would you take that option over life filled with dating, hook ups, relationships, fun, heartache, breakups, marriages,divorces, drama, uncertainty, infidelity, stress and all? [/quote]

Kinda weird to me that:

1. You equate monogamy with marrying early and having zero prior partners

2. You think marrying later and dating around means mostly heartache, drama, uncertainly, infidelity, and stress.

I spent my 20s dating and having hookups. I’m now married and extremely monogamous.

Being single was FAR less stressful than marriage/kids. Having to only take care of myself was awesome.

My closest friends all married young (18,19,20) and those relationships were FULL of drama, infidelity, heartache, and stress.

Ultimately it all depends. There’s no right answer for everyone. Marrying young and having only one partner would have absolutely been the wrong choice for me, I would have been very unhappy. But I also probably didn’t need about half of my relationships and hookups, let’s be honest, many men are pretty terrible in bed. If I could get rid of the crappy hookups that would be fine. But there’s definitely a couple I don’t want to forget 😈[/quote]

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