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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If someone fell in love, married early and stayed monogamous all their life, did they miss out even though they were happy and content?

Would you take that option over life filled with dating, hook ups, relationships, [b]fun, heartache[/b], breakups, marriages,divorces, [b]drama, uncertainty[/b], infidelity, [b]stress and all[/b]? [/quote]

You have a really warped view.  You can be happy and content and still have all the things bolded in your 2nd option.  You seem to think that 'happy and content' is like a flat road - no ups and downs.  That's just not the way it is.  Before I met my DH, I had never had a serious relationship and had only had 1 other sex partner.  Once we met, that was it.  We've been happily monogamous for 30 years.  Yet, we've also had fun, heartache, drama, uncertainty and stress.  It was nothing out of the ordinary, it's just life.

In short, it's not an either/or choice.  If you're dissatisfied with your current relationship, look within.  The grass is unlikely to be greener on the other side. [/quote]

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