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[quote=Anonymous]I'm so sorry, OP. I haven't lived through a similar experience, not having any siblings, but I would strongly urge you to stay in contact with the other relatives. If anything, it will greatly help them see you as a human being to be respected, and it will detract from your sibling's narrative of being the victim.

For example, my mother bad-mouthed me to everyone in the family years ago, and it's only because they knew me, and knew that I would never do all the things she accused me of doing, that they could see both sides, and not take hers. Cultivate relationships. It's all PR and damage control, if you want to look at it from that angle :-) Defend your side by showing up and being charming! Then people will say: "Oh, Sarah is delightful, and her kids are so grown up and well-behaved. I wonder what really happened between her and Jane. Makes me think Jane might have misconstrued some stuff..." that's always how it goes, OP. The side who shows up most usually wins.
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