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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, I sometimes wonder if our society ever allows someone to just be sad and upset. What's happening in Ukraine is awful. Isn't it OK and perfectly understandable for your wife to be a mess? Can't you just let her be?[/quote] This. Support her as much as you can, materially and with your time and effort, not just telling her to slow down and go to therapy. The idea that all problems are emotional problems and we just need medication or coping skills is so harmful. Your wife being a mess is the symptom of a much bigger external problem, not the disease.[/quote]
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