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Reply to "Ok to just make major parental decisions solo?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You have to make that decision for yourself. People here would say yes because they agree with the action you want to take (FWIW, I agree with the action also, but I’m looking at the question you posed as a relationship question). If you were trying to do something that the other parent opposed but it was NOT a DCUM-approved action, you’d get a different response. So I think you should weigh the benefit you believe you will achieve against the potential harm to your relationship when your spouse finds out you went behind his back and proceed accordingly. Also think about whether the harm to the relationship, if any, could also have a negative effect on the kid.[/quote] Yeah, I think deep down I know I have to discuss with my husband otherwise there will be a huge blowup, and major consequences. I am just so tired of arguing the point, and I guess I am just looking for a green light to just do what I think I need to do.[/quote]
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