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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Love the child you have not the one you want.  Find an activity that he enjoys.[/quote]

The thing is that many, possibly most, kids don't love their instrument right away. It can take a couple years of practice to achieve the mastery that makes it fun and enjoyable to listen to. That time frame can be accelerated with an excellent teacher or dedicated practice rather then half hearted playing. The fun can be increased in a group setting. But there is generally a period that feels like a slog.

Like learning to kick a ball or learning to read, many people feel that it's worthwhile to slog through until it clicks.

I don't want my kids to become professional musicians (unless that happens to be their passion down the road). I do want them to learn that incremental practice makes a difference and that they can become proficient in an activity that can enhance their lives, whether they're the ones playing or just as listeners.     [/quote]

You csn accomplish all of the secondary hoals through any activity they enjoy.  Yourvdream is to have a musical child.  Let him explore.  Maybe it will be karate or musical theater, or fine art. Who knows what he will be drawn to.  Allow him to find his own interests. [/quote]

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