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[quote=Anonymous]I'll echo a prior poster and take a guess that if he took more off your plate you wouldn't mind his lack of ambition so much. So maybe the approach isn't for him to make more money necessarily, but to outline his responsibility and do his share - if that means finding extra money for outsourcing, so be it. I'm sure that his working Saturdays also negatively affects your closeness and time as a family, and you can bring up that aspect of his job. If he looks for another job in this market he might get a pay bump and better work life balance, without having to negotiate or do much high pressure self-advocacy beyond a resume and competent interviewing? [/quote]
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