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[quote=Anonymous]Where to start...

Last Friday, a friend (that I've known since September) and I went out with another couple while my boyfriend was the DD.
Before we met up I told my friend (we'll call her Z) that if she was too drunk to drive home that night, she could stay in our guest room. As the night went on, she easily took the offer and we were headed home by 12:30p. She has my boyfriend stop once so she could puke while we were heading home..she was very sloshed. She kept asking to drink wine once we got home and she even asked out of no where if my boyfriend would ever do a threesome. I was very offends about the question but blew it off, giving her a pass because she was so drunk.

When we got home, I gave her a bottle of water and asked her if she needed anything else. Everyone was in bed within twenty minutes and I was out within thirty. I had to wake up early the next morning to take her to her car because she had to work. I wake up and use the guest bathroom so I do not wake my boyfriend and notice the bathroom smells horrible and I notice a huge smear on the toilet seat. I didn't say anything to her at the moment because I didn't want to embarrass her. I mean, what do you say in that instant?

In the car ride home, she kept saying that she just wanted to shower and the conversation was very weird...we usually talk with no effort because we've clicked so fast. When we get to her car, she thanks me and hops out and that's when I notice the nasty poop smell again..it literally gagged me and I had to ride home with my windows down.

As soon as I got home, I rushed upstairs to inspect the toilet because I had a hunch of what the smear was. Sure enough, my toilet seat was smeared with a grown woman's feces..all over it. The rug that was placed below the toilet even had a chuck of feces on it. I put on gloves and began to clean and lysol the crap out of the toilet and even after lifting the seat up, there was MORE feces all over the toilet bowl. I was disgusted!

I completely understand that people get sick but when you are in a persons house..you clean up your mess. I don't know if and how I approach her about this..it's sad because she is a good friend but I think she may have crossed the line of disrespect. My boyfriend insists that I never allow her to come over and I totally understand why but how do I do that?

Am I overreacting?

FYI: the reason I know about this forum is bc I am a nanny and read regularly. This is a bit off topic but I need as much advice as I can get.[/quote]

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