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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who's withholding?  You or the DH?

We've had sex a whopping two times since my 14 month old was born.  And probably only twice during my pregnancy.  Prior to the pregnancy, it was more often, but I honestly can't remember how much.  (Never an overwhelming amount, but enough that there were no complaints.)

[b]Even though I don't initiate it, I would probably take DH up on it if he started things.  So, I feel like it's him that's withholding. [/b] I have thrown out barbs like "Well, we're not screwing anymore, so why should I care about this or that" during fights at least 3 times since DS was born, with no response from DH.  I would expect him to at least say "well, you're always tired" or "grouchy" or even "too fat"...but nothing, so that just makes me think he's past even making excuses, but just totally doesn't want it.

So when I read the post that there are other sexless couples out there, I felt better for a few nights.  Until I thought oh, in those cases, it's probably the woman withholding, never the man.  So I thought I'd ask.

FWIW, though I don't want to be called naive, I fully believe he's not seeing anyone else.  We're together all the time, except his work hours.

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No, that would be you. That plus your "barbs" and well, you sound like a real gem. Act like an adult, and instead of taunting him, jump his bones and enjoy. Oh, given the ill will you've already run up, you may have to do this a few times before he doesn't look at you suspiciously.[/quote]

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