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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've worked with someone for over a decade and we always got along but there was never anything romantic between us. Suddenly I feel a very irritating distracting attraction. We are both married and[b] I am good friends with his wife. I love my husband.[/b] I wouldn't ever cross any lines, I'm just wondering how to go back to not having any hormonal reaction to this person. i've tried focusing on real or perceived shortcomings and that seems to help some but not completely. Maybe this is just a result of not seeing people for two years and now that we're back in offices getting used to it? Sigh.[/quote] Read the bolded over and over and over again. You have no idea the depth of trauma that infidelity/affairs cause a spouse, and for it to be with a good friend...that betrayal is even more magnified. Keep that in mind with every single interaction going forward. Don't cause irreparable trauma to someone else.[/quote]
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