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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Am I right to ask for a little bit more time and space from them to heal and get over it?[/quote]Abusive MIL was forgiven for physical abuse (never hit me, but would force me to exacerbate damaged leg leaving me unable to walk for day, tried to make me work on concussion red zone, etc), sexual harassment (grabbing a size 44 underwear [I'm size 0/14kids] and trying to slut-shame me and pretending we were engaging in pre-marital sex [nothing wrong with this, but we were waiting]), emotional abuse (constantly asking me to fix her equipment/help then calling me dumb, heard of hairstyling reputation so had me fix her hair, then refused any holds/rubberbands or clips, then summoned more caretaking only to lie to on the phone about how horrible my hairstyling is, constant slander behind my back.  Well you know where it got me--she one day started screaming I should kill myself, and then shortly thereafter someone we knew did.  BULLIES know they are immoral and [b]forgiveness empowers them to do it more[/b].  You would be totally justified in DIVORCING your wife.  She is married to her parents and not you.  [/quote]

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