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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother and me never got along and this lasted until the day she died. I think it started around 3rd grade. My dad used to be traveling all the time and when he came home he would spoil us rotten, and I would snitch on anything she did. At that time I didn't know he would abuse her for disciplining the kids. So basically, I snitch, dad hits mom. So she gave up disciplining me and I guess also resented me. As I grew older I realized what a horrid person my father was (he started slapping and hitting me too - teens through my early 20's). My mother who was abused herself never protected me and I hated her for that. In spite of all that I miss her now that she is gone. [/quote] That's really messed up. This is why we never hit/spanked our kids - teaching violence at home, as a method to control, as a method to vent feelings. Your father was probably beaten by his parents and he passed the tradition down.[/quote]
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