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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think our DD was 9 for her first sleepover, but she does have anxiety which 100% played a role. Now she's good at 2 friends homes. If there was a new one where she hasn't been to the house before that would probably be a rough one. Every kid is different. I was sleeping over at friends homes when I was 5, but I've always been a very independent, self sufficient person.[/quote]

OP here. She's a little anxious too. She's never been to their house even for a regular playdate.

I'm kind of thinking about having her go for the party and then picking her up? I don't know... that would probably make it worse/weirder?[/quote]

I don't think this is weird at all.  Say she isn't comfortable doing sleepovers yet and pick her up at a certain time.

I guarantee you with kids that age there will be some middle of the night calls/pick ups.  The host is nuts.  No thanks.[/quote]

Op here.. right?! I would not want to host this at all as a parent. My DD actually has done one sleepover party at just turned 6, but it was for her cousin's birthday so I was ok with it because it's family. But I was just shocked at how many of my niece's friends' parents were ok with a sleepover at 5 and 6.
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I'm the parent of the anxious kid. What we did for that first one (and one before that wasn't successful) was to send her with everything she needed to sleepover, but if she didn't want to that was fine and we picked her up. We also let her know it was 100% fine for her to call at any point for us to pick her up. The unsuccessful time was around 1am. She felt better going knowing she had an out if she needed it.[/quote]

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