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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have been with my husband for 14 years, married 11 - we have 3 young kids.  I realized I haven't put on jeans or button pants in forever since I WFH full time and run around after 3 young kids during the morning/evenings/weekends.  I am definitely bigger than when we met (was around 135 when we met and now at 145).  Would you prefer a wife who has to seriously restrict their diet, no booze, and works out all the time in order to maintain their weight or would you prefer a wife who has a little bit more weight, works out regularly but just can't shed those last 10 postpartum pounds?  I am still at a good pant size (26-27 inch waist) but just don't know if I have it in me to push to lost the last 10 pounds. I really like wine and food. [/quote]Unless you are shorter than 4'1" that doesn't sound that much bigger-especially for 3 kids???  I bet you're beautiful.  What did your husband say?  What brought on this insecurity?[/quote]

Op here - I am 5’7” so not short. Husband is doesn’t mind at all I just mind. Probably because I compare myself to my sister who has had 2 kids and weighs 10+ pounds less than me and works out all the time. I just don’t have the will power. [/quote]

Stop talking numbers with your sister. Stop comparing your LOOKS to other people. Be a kind person - that's WAY more important. [/quote]

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