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[quote=Anonymous]Long story short, my ex is on the opposite coast and we divorced last year. We were married overseas (his home country) 17 years ago and he sent me the divorce documents from that country which don't even mention our two children. In the meantime, I have given him numerous warnings that I am petitioning for court orders here- most importantly to establish custody of our children, and monthly child support payments, obligations re: life insurance, etc, are included. He has until Friday to respond before my lawyer files in the state I live in. I have offered him a reduction in CS and basically he can see the kids whenever he wants. His response has been mainly "why do we have to get courts and lawyers involved," and an offer to split the bills with me if I send him receipts for the extracurriculars and private school. How do I even respond to this? Part of me feels like I should just let the lawyer file and deal with it that way, but it would really be cheaper for all involved and easier if he'd agree to my reasonable terms now... I think he may think a lawyer can get him out of paying monthly CS at all? [/quote]

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