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[quote=Anonymous]There are no guarantees. I am one of two. My sister lives in the same city as my mom and my mom has always expected that my sister would be the one to help care for her in old age given the proximity. My sister is in her 40s and is dying from a rare and aggressive form of cancer. I am expecting my first child (in my 40s as well) within the week. I don't know if my sister will even be able to meet this child given how sick she is at the moment. So, I now will be raising a small child and caring for my mother from afar. Would I ever have guessed this scenario possible even 18 months ago? Nope. But, I will deal with it as it comes. Nothing else I can do.[/quote]
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