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[quote=Anonymous]the post about moms of only children feeling put down by comments of moms of multiple kids got me thinking.  i need to vent a little because i am an only child going through a really difficult time with my mom right now, and i want to provide my perspective to those of you who are on the fence about a second child.  and this really is for folks on the fence-not people who physically or financially or emotionally or for any other reason can't or don't want a second.  i'm not here and certainly don't want to make anyone feel bad about having only one kid...i had a happy childhood as an only and know plenty of only kids who likewise were/are happy.  but, if you're on the fence and are able, please have a second kid.  not so much for when they're young, but more for when you get old.  dealing with ill and aging parents is hard work and having to do it alone has been crushing.  i know it wouldn't have been a guarantee that my siblings (if i'd had any) would have been helpful in the current crisis, but there's a chance that they would have been able and willing to share this burden with me.  the prospect of 30+ years being the sole caretaker for my mom is so daunting, and i long for a sibling more now that i ever did as kid.[/quote]

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