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[quote=Anonymous]The other thread got me thinking about mom guilt and how so so many of us feel like we are failing in some way. A therapist even pointed out to me that I create no win situations for myself where no matter what I do I feel like I’m failing someone (the example was that I felt guilty that my bigger kids were missing out on adventure bc of the baby so I booked a sitter for a weekend to take big kids on an adventure and then just felt guilty I’d “abandoned” the baby for a weekend). I do this endlessly, only looking at the negative side of the trade offs I’m making and it’s not helpful. So I’m just curious - do any moms not feel “mom guilt” regularly. And if so can you share a bit more about your (much healthier) perspective and if you’ve always felt that way or if you did work to get there?[/quote]
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